Exposing The Troubled Teen Industry | with Meg Appelgate
What really happens behind the doors of “tough love” teen programs, and who’s holding them accountable?
In this episode of Sh*ts F*cked, Paris speaks with Meg Appelgate, survivor, author of Becoming UNSILENCED, and founder of Unsilenced, about the hidden abuse, manipulation, and trauma that have long been embedded in the Troubled Teen Industry (TTI) in the United States.
Meg shares her firsthand experience growing up inside these institutions, where gaslighting, restraint, isolation, and victim-blaming were disguised as treatment. Together, they unpack how normal teenage behaviours are often pathologised, the long-term emotional toll of coercive care, and the deep flaws in a system that still lacks meaningful regulation.
While Meg’s story is rooted in the U.S., this conversation also explores the signs of similar patterns in Australia, and what we need to look out for to protect vulnerable young people.
What we cover:
What the Troubled Teen Industry really looks like
The emotional impact of being silenced and gaslit
Why it took Meg years to speak out
How Unsilenced is advocating for survivors and policy change
Finding your voice after institutional trauma
How to question systems and support real, compassionate care
